Friendship Singles

Does your friendship change with you single friends? My friend recently got married and she said she had a conversation with her mother about friendships after you get married. They're both convinced that your friendships you have with your single friends will change. I'm not exactly sure what would change. Your availability, yes. But what else? Has anyone grown apart from their friends or their relationship change with their single friends? Was it a good change or bad? Does it have to be different?

Does your friendship change with your single friends? My friend recently got married and she said she had a conversation with her mother about friendships after you get married. They're both convinced that your friendships you have with your single friends will change. I'm not exactly sure what would change. Your availability, yes. But what else? Has anyone grown apart from their friends or their relationship change with their single friends? Was it a good change or bad? Does it have to be different?

Why if a guy do this and he's married is wrong and wants to cheat and if he's single he just wants friendship? If a guy send you a simple email just wanting to say Hi, asking how are you doing. If he's married is wrong and single is innocent. How can a simple message change depending on the marital status of the sender. Isn't friendship anyway? So, why does people say this guy who is married sent me this and wants something sneaky then. What do you think?

What does Aristole mean by friendship is a single soul dwelling in two bodies?

Where do singles 32 thru 55 go for true friendship in the South Suburban of Chicago? Somewhere everyone can have a good time like shooting pool, playing darts, or bid whist, etc.

Why does any online friendship seem to fail if the person lives a state away? I have online friends from all over Wisconsin who I have talked to for years and years, but every single friendship that I ever made with anyone (be they through Yahoo, LJ, or MySpace) outside of this great dairy state seems to deteriorate in a month or sooner. Oh, also, keep in mind that I never see the Wisconsinites, so they don't have an advantage over the others or anything.

Guys, why would a single man begin a friendship with an attractive married woman he just met? from another country? Why would he invest time staying in contact (contact is 1x every 1-2 weeks)? He's successful, smart and over 40. Remember it is long distance.

Is it cheating if you have a friendship with someone but you have romantic feeling? Friendship is between a married woman and single man. Strictly platonic in conversation, no physical contact, he does not know she has these feelings. He does not have romantic feelings for her. Contact by phone or text every 1 to 2 weeks. Is this an affair or just a fantasy? Even if husband knows about friendship, he doesn't know about the romantic feelings. Obviously it isn't right, but is it cheating?

Why r all the hot single gals on facebook only looking 4 friendship? Dont they know that friendship is boring lol, i mean y not a rship at least

How can I find any mature lady in East London for friendship? I am 29 years old Asian guy living in East London,looking for any mature single lady of any race/language for friendship.Plz e mail me confidentially.

is there a singles site for women seeking younger men for friendship dating? i look and act younger than 58!!? no offense guys, but don't most of you want someone younger? people guess my age around 45 yrs.....i'm just not interested in men older than myself...

What does it mean when a guy's relationship is complicated, but he's looking for friendship? Okay, so I was looking through my crushes facebook, the guy that I like and his relationship status said it's complicated, but is looking for friendship. Does it mean that he's single and just wants to be friends with people?

How do you deepen a friendship with a guy? I am wondering how to deepen a friendship with a guy that's stictly platonic, not sexual not romantic when your friendship is currently light and casual. Regardless of marital status. I'm single though. My married friend is close to a married guy(not her husband) but not too close.

How do you turn a friendship into dating? There's a guy in one of my classes that I like. We've talked a few times now, so it's just a casual friendship. Is it best to keep talking casually for now, or should I flirt a bit (how?) We only get a chance to talk for about 10 minutes a day before class starts... I don't even know if he's single. What do I do?

Best way to meet bisexual women for friendship? I'm a single mom with 2 kids that live with me full time and I'm wanting to meet more bisexual women or lesbians. I've searched this question in y/a and got a lot of dating sites but I'm more interested in a friendship first. Any suggestions?

How do you deepen a friendship? I am wondering how to deepen a friendship with a guy that's stictly platonic, not sexual not romantic when your friendship is currently light and casual. Regardless of marital status. I'm single though. My married friend is close to a married guy(not her husband) but not too close.

Do you think that Britain has a friendship with every single EU country? If not, what country would? that be and why?

Is it normal to choose a friendship over a relationship every time you get close to someone? So, there is this girl...and so far she has gotten close to 3 guys. Every single time though she says that she would rather keep the friendship than risk it by going through with a relationship...She has openly admitted to having feelings for these guys and same with them for her but still she chooses the friendship. Do you think it is a matter of her not being ready, or her just being scared if things go wrong??

How can I tell if a girl is really into me and is interested in dating and not just friendship? I recently added this girl on facebook and after almost month she agreed to meet me the other night. We talked over a cup of coffee and she seemed nice and like smiled the whole time, and I know that she's single and stuff but I dont know if she's willing to take things further than just friendship. I didnt wanna ask her about it cuz I thought it might be too early to bring that up.

Can a married man really means friendship with a single girl? Especially if he only met her twice personally (no sex of course) but likes to exchange emails with her. They are long distance, and he seems pretty happily married, although the wife doesn't know cuz she's a jealous type. But he says he enjoys their friendship and communications. Why is it that people always relate a friendship like that as wrong, is it really wrong?

Any white single in Silver Spring, Maryland or nearby that likes friendship with a black man? I have been looking for a White lady in Silver Spring who likes a black man like me. Is it so difficult to find a White lady in Silver Spring or any where in Maryland who wants to be a lover of a blackman? I easily had some elsewhere before I came to Maryland; why is Maryland so difficult?

When would a guy have only "friendship feelings" for a beautiful girl? When would a single guy looking for a relatioship have only "friendship feelings" for a beautiful girl?

For the lesbians - wanting more than just friendship? I'm a single lesbian and I find that when I meet new lesbians (single as well), most of the time they're interested in something romantic (when getting to know them) and can't keep it as just friends. When I turn them down (being that I only want a friendship and they know that) they can't handle it (feel rejected) and the drama ensues. Why can't lesbians just be friends and hang out - no strings? Anyone else experience this?

In a friendship relationship between married man and single woman if only one of them loves the other is it..? still an emotional affair. What if it's the girl after the guy and he yet says he loves the wife and all, but replies to the girl and seconds the play a little bit, making her feel like he likes her and then bounces back. This is of course people who are long distance from one another and yet email very often, she calls him, he likes it and go on...... How about that huh?

How can I socialize & make friendship wid young girls at this age of 34? How can I socialize & make friendship wid young girls of age grp 18-23 at this age of 34? I am single bachelor male wy pose as a delhi gal? btw delhi ppl r so rude just like answers' users

What does it mean when a guy ends your friendship....? PLEASE BE NICE AND RESPECTFUL! What does it mean when after 4yrs of being good friends he abruptly ends your friendship with him when he finds out by accident that you're in love with him? He got ahold of an email that wasn't meant for him. He's 28 and single.

Do you think married people and single people are having hard time understanding each others in friendship?

Can a friendship relationship between a single girl and a married guy get dangerous if its long distance? Especially if they live countries apart, like they can keep in touch but they like to flirt with each other, although they might never meet again. Not me , but my roommate met a man in person some time ago, and they had been in contact since then. I think she likes him, but Idk about him. Can it develop into something nasty being so far from each other? I think she likes him cuz she talks about him all the time ugh!

Is it proper to find muslim friendship online? I met a muslim friendship site, http://www.muslimfriends.com/i/1981 There are great many muslim singles for friendship and Islam chat. But I don't know is it proper to seek things online for muslim people? Will Allah allow me to do so? I am a new ly reverted.

How to rekindle the friendship ? There was this guy that I was friends with last year in 8th grade. We'd talk almost every single day. I had almost all my classes with him and we always ended up sitting by each other. This year in 9th grade I only have one class with him (p.e ) and he is always with his other friends. It is kinda hard to go up with him since he is always occupied playing sports or w/e we happen to be doing. How can I get our friendship back to where it was?

What's the difference between a professional friendship and a regular friendship? I can only tell the difference in opposite genders. But not same genders. For example, I wouldn't chat with my pastor late at night(10pm to midnight) or compliment him or share with him personal things but I'd do that with my guy friends married or single that isn't my pastor. What's the difference in same gender relationships?

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How to stop a cyber friendship which is becoming real? I knew this guy for three years online, and we used to talk by webcam and email. I sometimes sent him gifts and even money when he needed and he never retured. On the other hand he first told me he's single, now he says he's separated. I'm not going to continue this relationship. He keeps texting me, no matter I don't answer him. What's the fastest way to stop the relationship? Actually I don't want to talk because he's better in talking than me and will win. Is ignoring texts and emails enough?

How can I improve the friendship between my brother and I ? alright well, i'm 18 months older than my brother (i'm 13 hes 12) and yes we occasionally fight. i dont know a single pair of siblings that dont. but recently we've just been arguing so much to the point where we're barely talking. i love him to death and we used to be best friends. how can i improve our relationship? i want to be a role model to him and i need a friend at home that can understand and things thankk you :)

Shall I continue friendship with my friend? I am working in S/W company. But my friends are working in some other company getting less pay than me. The problem is whenever we go out, one of friend want me (or) expecting me to sponsor for movie, food..etc. But he won't open a single money from his pocket and he didn't gave any single treat to us. And I hate his attitude. So, shall I continue friendship with him (or) not? ur suggestion pls.

Is it possible for a single female to have a close friendship..? with a pastor if she's close to the wife and his wife encourages her to befriend him? Of course she never hangs out with him alone without her(the wife) or anyone else there with them. Is it possible that they can have a platonic friendship that's close and trusting? Right now it's light and casual so how can they deepen their friendship platonically?

How can I repair the 'friendship'? I started high school this year and there was an inundation of kids from the private middle schools. One girl, Bailey, was new and from the first day I've wanted to be her friend. She's become quite popular and such, but literally every single time I see her I make an idiot of myself. I just sort of freak out when I'm anywhere near her. I start laughing obnoxiously, rambling on and on, blushing uncontrollably. If I open a door of a classroom or stairway and she's behind it, I yelp and say 'sorry' even though there's nothing for me to be sorry for! She tapped my shoulder once and said 'hey' and I shreiked with excitement and shocked-ness! I just always seems to freak out and humiliate myself when I'm around her, which isn't helping our friendship (or lack there of!) I want to be her friend!!! I always make an idiot of myself and I'm wondering how I can fix that? What can I do to help myself? Is there a reason why I do this?

Poll: What is a favorite quote or saying of yours about Friendship? Today, March 20th, is my BFF Zsa Zsa Galore's birthday & I want to have as many quotes about friendship as possible to help bring some sunshine to her Special Day! Here are 2 of mine: "My Best Friend is One Who Brings Out the Best In Me" ~ Henry Ford "What is a Friend? A Single Soul in Two Bodies" ~ Aristotle

Do you think sex with a friend ruins the friendship? Sugar and Offkey bring up an interesting point. When I was younger and single, (married 18 yrs.) I tried the "friends with benefits" thing, but found it usually ruined the friendship. Once I got married, a firm but friendly "no" was always just fine with male friends.

Why is it that I can't have normal friendships with single guys? I'm a senior in high school, and I really just want to focus on graduating, work, and soccer. I just want to be friends, but they always try to get with me and it totally ruins our friendship. This has happened to a point where I just don't know what to do. I'm not being flirtatious or anything, I treat them like I do my guy friends who have girlfriends already. What is the deal?

Is it worth salvaging a friendship ruined by a relationship? I met a girl on single fire fighters.com and were both volunteer fire fighters in our respective countries everything was going along fine cause we were chatting on yahoo messenger once or twice a week and she was planning to come to Australia to visit me until she started going out with someone off her myspace friends list and completely ignored the fact her relationship was tearing apart our friendship, i've made several attempts to make her aware of this including a email and several offline messages yet it didnt work... is it worth trying to salvage this friendship myself or just move on and let her find out afterwards once she dumps her bf and realises shes lost a real good friend cause of ignoring the warning signs Just recently i deleted her off my myspace friends list but have left her on my yahoo messenger list incase she needs a real good friend to talk to or wants to repair our friendship Just to add i am after positive answers not negative ones Im hoping she'll come to her senses and try to repair the friendship but i am not sure of when this will happen

What am i supposed to do when i suffer from social anxiety disorder? I've been avoiding my friends for awhile because i get socially anxious around them. I told one of my closest friend that i think i suffer from this (social anxiety disorder) and she has been nothing more than understanding, but i can't stop but feel bad that i am driving her away from our friendship. every single time i see her i feel anxious and because of that i've been avoiding her. What should i do? I can't keep avoiding her.

Would you trust your man to have a friendship with a single woman? That includes hanging out, having lunch/dinner, and drinking together... all without you and sometimes without your knowledge?

Can a once purely platonic friendship become a romantic relationship? My best friend is a guy and we've know each other since the beginning of highschool, now we're in uni. We've always been just "friends", and each of us has had relations with other ppl but i've never felt jealous, in fact i was always happy for him. We're now both single. But i can't seem to get into other relationships because i keep comparing it to what me and my best friend have, but i don't know whether im in love with him. i don't know how to put this any other way, but the fact is i love his personality, and even though he is a good looking guy i could never imagine having sex with him, altough we flirt all the time with each other. But he is everything i've wanted in a boyfriend, but am i actually in love with him? can a relationship be based on more than passion and desire for that person, or is that the factor which distinguishes between friendship and romance. as u can probably tell, im kinda confused...any advice or experiences would be very useful.... i also mean to say that i went on a date with this one guy who also knew my best friend and we got talking about my friend and talking about him made me feel like "what am i doing with someone else?"....hmmm, dont know if that helps clarify things....

what should i do to turn it into something more than just a friendship? I have a good friend at school. I really like him. He has dated my friend before but they broke up. Now hes single. Should I tell him how much I like him or should I just not say anything? Should I asked him how he feels about me? Every time I don't say anything I feel like its too late and then they have a girlfriend.

How 53 years widow starts new life (relationship/friendship)? My husband died few years ago. I am working, independent woman with adult children. I do not know single people, but I would like to make new friends and start a new life. I do not feel confident dating online.

Should couples still enjoy single friendships with the opposite sex? for example.. when in a committed loving relationship is it still ok to go out on dates with a single friend or would that be unfair on your partner? Interested in others opinions on this.. thanx

where can I meet NICE Single men. I'm a Single mom, looking for friendship, ok a conpanion.? I'm a single mom of three. I live in St.Petersburg Florida. Ok I'm a little heavy, but I'm cute, that has to count for something. I would like to meet men for conpionship. Maybe another single mom for friendship. OK I love my kids, but I'm lonely.

Is our friendship over or is she just making new friends? Ok so I have this friend who keeps on hanging out with other people not me and we used to hang out every single day. She said to me that I would always be her best friend but now I keep feeling i'm not. She hasn't talked to me or e-mailed or texted me in at least 2 months. Am I still her friend or has she ditched me? Please help me!

Should I screw up our friendship just to find out how she feels? I have really strong feelings for one of my friends, I have done for a long time. I felt this way all the way through one of her relationships and a couple weeks ago we were camping and we pulled each other but the next day nothing happened then she started going out with someone else, we haven't been the same since now shes single again, what should I do

Any woman worldwide interested in friendship and net working with a Kenyan man? Am 30, single, business minded and i would like to reach out for friendship and networking with interested genuine women of the world.

Where is the best place to a divorced middle-aged guy to meet women for a friendship? I know this question sounds a little trite, but I see good looking single moms that must be hanging out somewhere and I am not a bar type person and it seems almost sacrilegious to try this at church. I was just looking for something unique or creative other than an online dating site.

Should couples still enjoy single friendships with the opposite sex? for example.. when in a committed loving relationship is it still ok to go out on dates with a single friend or would that be unfair on your partner? Interested in others opinions on this.. thanx

What would you call it: friendship or love? I have a friend who I have known for several years now. We went to the same school together and were in a few classes together. We are very close, and have been through so much together emotionally. I had feelings for her and I told her about them, but we both decided it was better to preserve our friendship. Now we look out for each other. We live in two different cities, yet we keep in contact frequently; we write each other on almost a daily basis. This brings me to my question: Recently, she and I found the loves of our lives, but we both went through very similar situations in not being able to be with them at this point in time, so we both ended up single at the same time. Everytime she got hurt or felt pain, I would feel anger and would die a little inside. I felt like her guardian angel and I wanted to shield her from the pain that continually befell her. I do not know if this is a beautiful friendship or remnants of my feelings for her slowly reviving themselves (Continued) To finish it: I have felt (and I have told her this) that she has become part of my heart, and she remains so. Plus, almost every letter I make her day (she tells me so), and I can tell each letter that I send her makes her happy. Please opine... Just to add a little more info: I had asked her to the Senior Ball back in High School, but she declined. She did manage to save me a dance, which never happened because I couldn't find her. She felt really bad because she couldn't find me either and she had a night as bad as I did. And we still owe each other a dance... I also defended her love many times, something she said that even her best girl friends have never done. You could say I've gone above and beyond...There was girl I was crushing on at one time who said some rather unflattering things about her. I was close w/ my crush, but I chose my friend over her. Does that tell anyone anything? Please answer some more... And one more tidbit of info: recently, I have been dreaming about her more than the girl I am currently in love with.

Why would a single man begin a friendship with an attractive married woman he just met? from another country? Why would he invest time staying in contact (mutual contact is 1x every 1-2 weeks)? He's successful, smart and over 40. Remember it is long distance over several months. Conversations are platonic. They met in person on holiday and hung out a couple nights. He's in the UK she's in the US.

should i worry about bf's friendship w/single woman he dated for 2 mos? my bf is still friends/drinking buddies w/a woman he dated for 2 mos & told me he didn't have a spark with. well i saw him out with her on a Sat nite when i was available (he didn't tell me he was going out with her) & she was being very chummy rubbing his neck & his back under his sweater, leaning into him, etc. he wasn't doing anything back but didn't ask her to stop either & he knew i was there & could see everything. when i asked him about it the next day he said she NEVER does that & he's not into her in that way, but then why did he allow that to continue? should i be worried? what more can i say to him about it without pissing him off? i know i can't fulfill all his friendship/social needs every minute but i don't let my male friends touch me like that & don't want him to allow that either but we've only been dating 3 mos ourselves & i know you can't ask someone to give up a friend, but.... any advice??!!

If you had to end a long-standing friendship with a single sentence...? ...what would it be?

Can a married man have a simple friendship with a single girl or does it's always wrong? A married man always replies to a single girl messages although he loves his wife. They are long distance and the communications are not sexual but more sharing of feelings, thoughts, friendly type. They met in person once (no sex) and kept in touch since. The girl calls him for special occasions and they have this sort of awkward silences like they want to say more but don't maybe b/c of guilt or don't want to get into trouble. His wife don't know about that friendship. He says he enjoys their friendship and communications, that's great to hear from her always, but he do love his wife. The people who know them both say something might be going on. Can a friendship go on like that?

Married man has an email L.D. friendship with a single girl, he loves his wife but would he cheat if he could? A guy who has a long distance email friendship with a girl who is single, he says he loves his wife and never touches sexual subject with the girl. The girl seems to be in love with him, but he doesn't surrender to her, he just talks about enjoying their friendship and have short communications with her by email, once or twice a month. Since the girl has feelings for him, she calls him from time to time and talk shortly, but he seems to flirt with her LITTLE on the phone. The point is, if he loves his wife and do not love or is interested in the girl, why would he keep such a friendship? And if the girl hasn't write a note in a month or so, he sends hello notes to check on her as a FRIEND? This is been going on for 3 years already.............What do you think?

What can I do in Derby? I'm newly single and looking for friendship? I want to meet new people without the pressure of dating Im not ready for that yet! All the sites or clubs I've been to are dating sites...help!

PLEASE help me translate to LATIN Aristotle's quote: "Friendship is a single soul dwelling in two bodies"? ITS REALLY URGENT PLEASE!!!!!!

Is it OK to have friendship between a married woman and a single man? How can it hurt one's relationship with your spouse or family? When to stop and leave it for good.

can a gay man in a long term relationship handle a friendship with a single man? partner had an affair with a younger man we befriended. i was suspicious from the start and my insticts proved correct that the guy was only after my partner and not a friendship. this has happened to me in a relationship when i was younger also so that is my question. can gays in a relationship cope with friendships with other gays? i dont have any cause i dont trust there motives.

Would you create and continue a friendship with a single person of opposite sex..? ..when your partner is uncomfortable/doesn't approve? why/why not? what is your experience?

Is it possible for a married woman to have a friendship with a single male? I know, odd question. My husband and I fully trust each other. 100%. I've hung out with a few exes before, for very very brief moments... just to see how things were going for them.. before I realized they were druggies that I really didn't need in my life. I let him hang out with female friends and what not sometimes... so we're pretty comfortable with each other and the opposite gender. I'm always upfront about everything 100%. I tell him about damn near everything that goes on. For some reason, I just can't get along with females very well. If you're a female and reading this, I'm sure you get where I'm coming from. I can only seem to connect to males. And most males I find are single... I would feel kind of weird starting a friendship with a married man... because you know how women can be. I was just wondering, is it possible for a friendship with a single man and a married woman to work? I've came across two guys that could potentially be good friends, but it seems like they always end up liking me... more than just friendship at some point, and I have to break off the friendship. So in the end, I am still lonely and curious as to if I'll ever find a friend. I love my husband, and our marriage is great... it's just nice to have someone outside of us to talk to sometimes.

Do you believe in close friendships between singles man and woman? or it is just covered love?

A question of balancing friendship and marriage? so, you had good friends that you'd hang out with and then you met the perfect guy and got married.. your old friends expect you to go with them, but your husband says you're a married woman and should be in your home, not hanging out with your single friends.. my mother has been married to my dad for over 30 yrs and none of them had time to go out with friends etc.. their time was spent with family... It makes sense to concentrate more on your marriage, isn't it? what are your opinions on your old friends and a new marriage?

Where can I go online to hook up with people for friendship NOT dating? I'm NOT looking for a dating situation, and the personals all ask for singles only, technically I'm not. I would like to find some intellegent, adult persons to talk with, I'm attempting to build a base of friends. I've been out of touch too long and all my old friends have moved on and away. As a start my interests are music, dogs, and the fantasy that magic is real(through books and television shows).

Any single South African guys seeking a friendship or dating relationship...? If you are SINGLE, male, aged between 15 and 19, are looking for friendship or dating and live in the Johannesburg area... Then I need your IM address in your answer so maybe we can start a relationship... hope 2 hear frm u Im a chick and Im straight

If a guy gives you his number, does that mean he is interested in something a little bit more than friendship? We've been sitting next to eachother in class for a month or so and we talk occasionally, but i wouldnt have considered us friends really. But we started talking this weekend and got in to some really deep stuff and talked about how we really get eachother. At the end of the conversation, he had to go but he said "If you ever wanna talk or anything, here's my number." We were also talking about relationships and dating and how we both had bad relationships and that we have been single but now we're ready to move on and stuff.

Is it wrong to maintain a friendship with an ex-boyfriend who is married while you are still single? We have not dated for about 9 or 10 years now. I am currently in a relationship for 4 years. However, both of our current partners are very insecure people. My ex and I just have a unique connection, but unfortunately when we dated we were young and dumb. I do not want to lose his friendship, but I do not want to cause problems for either of us.

i am 40 old man single i have friendship with woman but i start love her how i know she love my too?

does this sound more than friendship? this guy i like comes to my work for breakfast often and we always talk? he takes time from his friends to talk to me. last time i saw him he said it is good to see you and he has never said that before. he is single and is a great guy. now we are talking on facebook and the other night he told me that he lost his job recently due to the economy and he can't come for breakfast as often now. i really like him and i want to see where this can go.

Can you write me a poem about friendship? i want to send a poem to my friend from my old school because she helped me through every single one of my problems no i didnt start it....

I live with my bf, he won't commit or tell anyone about me and wants close friendship with other women? I've been living with my boyfriend 1 1/2 yrs. He doesn't tell his family or friends that we are more than friends. We get along great, he is very good to me, my best friend! and he is close with my teen kids, is very good to them like a father to them, but he says he will never commit to me or anyone. He wants to get together with single female friends, and doesn't tell them about me. We are very close; this is our only problem.

Married man and single girl friendship? Please read details!? My roommate and I met a guy a year ago in a stock selling we made. The guy turned out to be military and I saw they friendly flirt, I knew he left shortly afterwards to his base in North Korea. She told that she was getting in touch with him, so as friends. Then she said he wrote to her that he and his family were moving again to the US, but to a state far, tehy kept in touch. I thought they cut it since she never mentioned it until now, that she still emails him and that share stuff by emial. I asked her and she says it's a friendship. What I didn't think is a simple friendship cuz I found out she called him on the phone last week bcuz he was getting deployed again. She said he was astonished by her called and that they didn't spoke much. But she said he told her that he enjoys their friendship and communications and that he'll keep in touch. I told her it can be dangerous but she still denies it. Well, turns out the guy wrote to her again from deployment asking how she is.... This guy from what I know is in his 2nd marriage with another GI older than him. Idk. I know I posted this before but I want my friend to read what think. If I´m wrong I´m wrong but maybe there are others with similar point of view to show her..... She´s my friend and she a good girl, we her friends want the best for her. I´ve seen her crying at night over this and we don´t know what to do or think. Advice please!

How do you know if there is something more in a friendship? I am a single guy that has been friends with a married woman for over 4 years. We have done a lot of fun activites together and have included her kids on many of ocassions. She will include me on things that a normal couple would do. We have talked about our hopes, dreams, fears. Her husband does not do anything fun with her family. She says that there cannot be anything between us except the friendship. Is this just a close friendship or is it her escape for the moment?

Can a woman married with children maintain friendships with her single women buddies? Or does the social class separation also separate the friendship? Interesting … historically “Social” class separators for women is marriage & kids. Now many are saying this isn’t a social class difference. Seems odd that we’d deny a theme that’s repeated endlessly in history. Hmmm.